Very often you hear people say they are either waiting on their blessing or trying to catch their blessing, and they mean every bit of those words!lol  Christians always know when their blessing is on the way because that’s when things seem the hardest to conquer.  I always say when you know for a fact you are giving your all in a situation and it still doesn’t seem to work out right, hold fast because your blessing is around the corner.  That’s why it is very important not to…

Relationships are not like back in the day when we would uplift one another and be each other’s support in every aspect.  In this day in age we have competitive relationships where you have one mate trying to “out shine” the other.  Now there is nothing wrong with an uplifting competitive mate because there you have your motivation; but a mate that see’s you trying to do something good with your life or improve yourself and they say things like, “I don’t know why you’re doing…

Next month will be the 1st Anniversary of a good friend's death. To this day, I find myself wondering what was going on in his head when he pulled the trigger. I am sure his wife, children, siblings, family, and friends all have reoccurring shoulda, coulda, wouldas going on in their heads as well. I can remember that day…

I often think and reflect upon my previous relationships. Don't get me wrong I am not meditating on what shoulda, coulda, or woulda happened had things gone my way but merely looking back at certain points to see if I missed an important lesson. To me, we are all teachers and students in life and people are placed on our paths for various reasons. Each man came with a story and a lesson. Did I get them all...ehhhh I doubt it. I do see moments where I made them uncomfortable with me because…